How
easy it is, when no one is looking, when no one is checking...to do just what
we want to do. No one will miss a few items from the storage room when there
are so many things in there; no one will notice some food items missing from
pantry, it’s so full; no one will catch that I misrepresent my assets on my
income tax return; no is going to see me cheat on this exam; no one is going to
see what happens when I’m out of town—after all, "what happens in Vegas stays in
Vegas." That’s the attitude that we have far too often...and how far from the
truth we have wandered.
Joseph
has been through some hard times. If anyone deserves to have a chip on his
shoulder, it’s Joseph. Sure, he had those amazing dreams of his brothers all
bowing down to him. That didn’t settle well in the family. Then, Dad (Jacob)
gives the boy this crazy-wild outfit to wear...and that only makes the brothers
more jealous and angry. Finally, they’ve had enough and decide to kill the boy.
Now that is jealous and angry to an insane degree! But, one brother intervenes—"let’s
just sell the guy into slavery and tell the family he’s dead;” that way, no
search party...and he’ll be gone forever. Out in the pasture, they toss Joseph
in a deep well, rip and shred his precious cloak and splatter it with blood
from a sheep they slaughter for supper, and then take the cloak home to show
that Joseph has been killed by some wild animal. And Joseph is gone.
When
we read the stories of the dreams, Joseph doesn’t seem braggadocios—at least
not in my reading. He seems rather matter-of-fact in the whole thing, and he is
not recorded as droning on and on about it. He has a dream, tells the
dream...and moves on. Does he deserve the hatred his brothers have for him?
Probably not that degree of hatred. So, he’s sold into slavery...and ends up in
Egypt where a fellow named Potiphar buys him and brings him home.
Young,
healthy, handsome Joe is not only strong and able; he has a good mind. He
organizes. He plans. And, he has a way with people—there are some leadership
qualities there. Soon, Potiphar puts Joe in charge of the household—over the
other slaves, over purchases, upkeep. He holds the keys to home. He does his
job well. He doesn’t take a little here and a little there. He doesn’t turn
away when other slaves are out of line—he corrects them. He is what we would
call a man of integrity.
Integrity
has been defined and articulate in various ways:
Merriam-Webster
defines integrity as 1) a firm adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic
values, 2) an unimpaired condition, and 3) the quality or state of being complete
or undivided.
Others
have said...
“Real integrity is doing the right thing,
knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you did it or not.” ― Oprah Winfrey
“One of the truest tests of integrity is its
blunt refusal to be compromised.” —Chinua Achebe
“I
am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but
I am bound to live up to what light I have.” ― Abraham Lincoln
Integrity
is the teenager in California who this week found a purse beside the road that
contained $10,000...and took it to the police station and saw it returned to
the owner.
Integrity
is the politician who graciously concedes defeat and walks away.
Integrity
is not taking advantage of people, situations, and laws...just because you can.
Integrity
is selecting the best person for the job rather than the person who’s related
to so-n-so. (And integrity is firing the person who is not doing the job.)
Integrity
is as simple as the person who promises to be there, who gets through with work
after a long day and is tired...but shows up anyway because he or she promised
to be there.
Joseph
adhered firmly to code of living, he allowed nothing to impair him, and he was
complete and undivided in his determination. And, not even the mistress of the
house was going to deter him from his path of life, his way of living.
“Joe,
come...let me show you something.”
“Joe,
you look tired—just lie down here with me a while.”
“Joe,
no one is around, no one will know. Potiphar won’t be home for hours.”
Joseph’s
response? “No.” And he said “no” over and over and over.
Why?
What led to this firmeza de conciencia
(strength of conscience)? Could be that Joseph was keenly aware of what we see
over and over again throughout this narrative, a truth that comes through time
and again in Scripture? At the beginning and end of this passage, we hear “...the
Lord was with him....” Could it be that Joseph was very aware that God was with
him...there...and everywhere? Could
it be that he learned something powerfully important in his experiences—that at
the bottom of that well he sensed God’s presence with him? As he trudged along
beside the other slaves headed for Egypt, did he feel God was with him? As
brought order to Potiphar’s home, did he know God was with him...right there,
with him?
The
Psalmist sings of this presence, this inescapable presence of God, in Psalm 139
(NIV):
7 Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,”
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
Where can I flee from your presence?
8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,”
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
Wherever Joseph goes, God is there.
When Joseph is part of the slave caravan, God is there. When he is in
Potiphar’s house, God is there. When he is thrown into prison, God is there.
When we get to the New Testament, God
is there as well. In fact, God breaks into our world in a new and amazing way:
“The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will
call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”) (Matthew 1:23).
In
Jesus, God with us...God now walks
among us.
Wherever
we go, God is with us. When we are enslaved to addictions, God is there. When
we’re home or at work or in between, God is there. When we are imprisoned in
difficult situations or relationships, God is there. No matter what seemingly
bottomless well we think we’re stuck in, no matter what strange situation, no
matter how distant we may be from all that is comfortable and known, God is
with us.
Perhaps
knowing God was there is what gave Joe the courage to remain true, to do the
right thing. Perhaps that idea that “no one will see” or “no one will know” is
simply a lie we tell ourselves—because God is there. God is with us! God is
with us and God loves us.
Too
often, we imagine that if God is there, God is standing over us, waiting for us
to screw up so punishment can be dealt. I think of Jesus...walking beside me. I
think of Jesus, laughing, talking, interested in me, in you. He walks with us
not to “catch” us; rather, Jesus walks with us because he loves being with us,
he wants to share life with us...and, he wants to help us to live well, to live
lives of love and care, to live with integrity.
Integrity
is seeing those people, places, attitudes, beliefs and activities in our lives
that are out of line, out of character, with who we are as Christians and
deciding to remove them from our lives. Easy? NO. Not at all. If it were, we’d
all be people of integrity all the time—integrity feels a lot better than the
cheating, stealing, defrauding, lying, playing-favorites self. But, God with
us! The Spirit of Christ is with us to help us, encourage us, cheer us towards
a life of greater and greater integrity. Do you need to make changes? God
invites us to a life of integrity. We can do what’s right, we can live well,
because God is with us, empowering us to live that way, God’s way.
~Amen~
(Sermon Sketches are the bare bones of sermons that are 'in-process' around the mid-week mark. I invite readers to build on what I've written, make suggestions, and ask questions.)